Woman are such succulent creatures. In most cultures we are raised to cater to our men, and/or to be fantastic mothers never really to worry about yourself as a women. I guess the idea of worrying about yourself is going to the OB/GYN, and why is that? “you must take care of the vagina its your bread-winner.” Bread winner meaning if you stop sexing your partner he wont support you, the man must always be happy. How about the woman when is she happy? Why are we not taught to work hard like men are. Why are us “girls” encouraged to get an education, but we look for men that can financially support us? Why are we not taught to be handy, like men?, there isn’t always a man around. Why are women not encouraged to be strong and independent like men, instead we are raised to cook, clean and be submissive. Why is there such a big enforcement about woman “obeying”? Why can’t we respect each other equally? What happened to “Don’t do to other, what you wouldn’t like to be done to you” Ironic don’t you think? I still don’t understand what separates woman from men apart from genitals. We are all created equal and deserve the chance to be proven wrong. Break the cycle and raise our generation to become more independent. Men and Woman should stand tall at the same level of liberty. Always remember men cry too and hurt just as much as woman. Put your brains to work and worry about your own, in reality no one absolutely no one is forced to give you what you need and or want and that’s what makes it so hard because that’s the biggest responsibility in your life is supporting yourself. As a result of woman being raised to be submissive towards men the men take advantage and relationships become violent, traumatic, controlling, and unhealthy. All because men have been raised to be superior and can’t accept a woman trying to be superior. There is nothing sexier than an independent woman who can stand strong, that is well-educated, well employed, well established, and can get down in the kitchen, in the bedroom, and in the playroom. Ironically men pass up chances with powerful woman, why? because there intimidated. Remember these are things that are not actually voiced. Its Taboo some how. Thank you for all your support. Thank you! Please feel free to comment.
TODAY ON WANDAS COUCH: #IM JUST SAYING
27 Tuesday Nov 2012
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Indeed intimidation is there clearly because of the constant power struggle but there is another factor that ties it in and that is a woman’s powerful mind. I actually believe a woman will love you for two things, love or security($$) and a female who is well endowed financially often times think she is entitled to the best and who can blame her she earned it but the mindset of power comes in and another percentage of females will not go for a man who can’t support or equalize the same financial status as her therefore we forget what love is and what it stands for. Men and women are equal but money is the root of all evil and its a shame we let paper dictate our lives.
Well said…money is the root of all evil…smh…I’m grateful for our equality but some of these females out here are just ridiculous…intimidation in my opinion is ok when it has to do with being a powerful woman I think more respect is given…men tend to aim to please because he knows she knows she deserves the best and if he don’t do it she will find someone who will…some women fall inlove when the man shows his love, respect, and attention towards her feelings…him doing for her doesn’t have to be $$ it could also be being kind understanding and level headed…what do u think shawn?
I think we are at an age when money has such a tight grip on us that we have to think twice about everything, not all of us because some are blessed to have a great job and some not so much and others being born into a situation that they weren’t responsible for happening. I know love won’t pay the bills and when a female looks at a man the thought will cross the mind “how will he take care of me and can he take care of me?” But for the latter love is still a strong element and some people bond well with it because they say love conquers all and its true for those that believe. Females have great intuition and I believe they embody love but some use it and abuse it if you know what I mean but to love for the sake of love takes two individuals who have strong wills and see beyond materials and can bond and make it work.
Yes…I also think that when there’s positive love it keeps u happy and being happy helps u live forward and live life to the best of u ability…